American Revolutionary War - Patriot or Loyalist

You are a 10 year old child living during the Revolutionary War time.  Events keep happening that are making many of the colonists angry. Things are heating up and even your family is at odds over their different points of view. Your father is a Patriot and your Uncle is a Loyalist. What are they arguing about? Why can't they agree or at least agree to disagree. Who is right? Is either of them right? Who do you side with the Patriots or the Loyalists?