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10 ways to get rid of homework difficulties

10 ways to get rid of homework difficulties

Nina was upset. Her 13-year-old daughter Christina has just finished reading the last book on the must-have list. According to the result of the reading, the daughter needs to write a summary and Nina insisted on completing the task while Christina still remembers all the details of the book.
"But mom, there is still a lot of time before the work is completed," replied Christina, "I can do it later."
As a school counselor, I assured Nina that it was too early to worry about her daughter's approach to homework.
In the meantime, there is no need to worry about it. ”
"The brain is a thirteen-year schoolgirl thinks so:" I do not need to take a job right now, so why do I do it "- says Peg Dawson ( Peg Dawson ), a psychologist and co-author of the book" Your child can do everything . "
The child procrastinates or stops doing something, preferring to switch to something else because he does not see the importance of the task or has difficulty understanding, organizing or motivating . Grunting will not help in this case.
In the meantime, there is no need to worry about it. ”
"Homework - it is the duty of Children opinion on this subject and many of them believe that it is better to have a reputation forgetful and irresponsible child, than to admit that they do not know how to do the job." - says Rick Vormeli ( Rick Wormeli ) , educational consultant and author of Fair Isn't Always Equal .
However, with a little creativity, parents can help their child overcome this barrier and learn to complete tasks more efficiently.
These 10 ways can help you encourage your child to start homework with more confidence and less resistance:

1. Set a routine and break bad habits
"An ideal activity takes five minutes and five a day, but it's important to do it diligently every day," says Dawson . "I usually ask my son:" You were given ten algebra assignments. How long do you think it will take you? "
Set the best pace for your work with thoughtful schedules and rest breaks. Provide your child with the right learning environment.
For example, one child has a need to study next to his parent in the kitchen, while another works best in his room. Someone needs a clean, free-of-the-spot space for classes that contains everything they need. Others feel comfortable in a creative mess. Some kids follow a schedule, others need a to-do list.
Break bad habits, intervene when your child starts talking about extraneous topics during class or does not go to bed on time because he decided to play or started homework too late and completes it before midnight.

2. Name and tame your inner voice.
Teach your child to notice when they have thoughts of failure. When an inner voice whispers, "You are bad at math, " the child can come up with a name for the voice, for example, Misha. Ask your child to choose a different name for the inner voice that claims to be good at something. Then say: "It is not your fault, it is Misha who is the cause of your problems." Ask your child the following questions: "What does Misha need to feel more confident in himself? What would a positive voice tell Misha to do?"
When the problem is resolved, the child will receive experience in her decision, says Ana Jovanovic ( Ana Jovanovic ), psychologist and coach online portal for learning Nobel Coaching in to Potomac , Md . This approach will help you understand that weakness is only part of the personality. Ana asks her students to name their timetable so that it is more difficult to reject it. And her charges are happy to use this, for example: "What should I do today? We need to ask Zhenya."
In the meantime, there is no need to worry about it. ”


3. In the hope for the luck.
Encourage your child to choose some special outfit for homework, such as an accessory or clothing, such as a hat to help think or all-seeing glasses.
Researchers at Northwestern University have noticed that even adults are influenced by what they wear. For example, when subjects in white lab coats were told that they were wearing doctor's coats, their concentration increased compared to the other group wearing artists' coats. A similar experiment was published in the journal Child Development, where researchers noticed that the child had increased self-control when pretending to be a superhero.


4. Let the school be the villain.
When doing your homework begins to make your life so difficult, it's time to contact your teacher or school counselor. Jennifer Goodstein ( Jennifer Goodstein ), sixth grade teacher and executive director in Bethesda , Md . reveals that she asks her parents to email her when the child loses emotional self-control . “We can take on the role of villains and say, 'okay Brandon , you got into a fight with your mom, so you have to do your homework at school,” Jennifer says, and then she schedules extra classes at school.
When Goodstein's eleven-year-old son gets upset, she starts asking him leading questions or helping him figure out a problem statement. But if he does not understand the subject itself, then Jennifer asks the teacher for more examples. She also delegates to the teacher to understand the quality of assignments. "If a son writes two sentences when it seems to me that he should write five, and he says that the teacher said so, then that is the teacher's concern."
In the meantime, there is no need to worry about it. ”


5. Trust but verify.
"Allow your child to choose, independently investigate or seek help from a teacher, but always make sure to it that he did it," says Kim Campbell ( Kim Campbell ), eighth grade teacher and consultant association mid-level teachers in Minnetonka ( Association for Middle Level Educators in Minnetonka , Minn ). If the child decides to ask the teacher about something, let him know what will happen if he does not. For example, you can tell him this: "You have until Tuesday to do it yourself, otherwise I will write a letter to the teacher." Sometimes the child still cannot understand the topic, so do not forbid him to ask for essay help .

6. Don't forget about rest.
“When I see children falling asleep, we do 20 jumps, play rock-paper-scissors or pretend that we are in the ocean and have to swim quickly away from the sharks,” Campbell says. Even a regular toilet break can help. To improve concentration, she recommends letting the children walk, play with a ball, or ride a bike before returning to work. When the child starts kicking the wall, parents can offer simple tasks to help them think, such as kneading dough, blowing bubbles, or breathing in and out slowly.
In the meantime, there is no need to worry about it. ”


7. Establish a reward system.
Rewards work best when they are received instantly. “You get an award for doing well for a week (not a month),” Campbell says. "Some parents make it a condition of receiving an award for a full quarter, but long-term goals don't work." The reward can be something small, like stickers for decorating notebooks. Ana Jovanovic notes that personalized learning supplies help children with their studies.


8. Modify your approach and provide communication.
“My oldest son was assigned to make a diorama, and his fine motor skills were not very developed, so it was difficult for him to cope with this work,” says Rick Wormeli . This assignment had more to do with attaching small toys to a shoebox than with science, so he asked the school to adjust the assignment.
Expand life experience with your child, travel, play sports, browse popular media and keep abreast of current events. Parents can also make the most of modern technology. The child can study with friends online or use various flashcards applications to better remember the material. You can teach him how to break large topics into small exercises or discuss essay ideas together.
But don't do the work for the child. As Rick says : "What is the best help we can give our child - to teach him something so that he will remember it for a long time, or give him a false sense of awareness?"



9. Choose an object to follow and cultivate fortitude.
Ask your child to name a person who admires him, be it a professional athlete or a favorite writer. And when a child becomes discouraged, ask what his idol would do in his place. Watching movies also helps you see the big picture. For example, Puzzle can help children appreciate the benefits of negative emotions. “When you are sad, you are more likely to ask for help and thus be able to connect with other people,” says Jovanovitch . She encourages parents to challenge their children when they say they are stupid or useless. “At such moments I say:“ Convince me that you cannot do this. Show me where you failed. " She then asks the child how it would be different if they told themselves they could do it. To build endurance, compliment the effort and emphasize that the child simply hasn't mastered the skill yet. If the child cannot cope, then reduce the load, let him do less and give his work to the professionals https://essayassistant.org/homework-help/.



10. Do not press too hard.
Too much pressure makes the child back down. “At the time when you are just starting to understand who you are, you are already being told who you should be,” says Jovanovitch . "When the gap between who you want to be and who your parents want you to be widens, you start to rebel."
Instead of arguing, Nika and Christina agreed to the experiment. Nika wrote down her predictions about how this would all end so that she could return to the question when Christina wrote her composition. When they discussed it afterwards, Christina admitted that she didn't remember the plot so well, but she said that she coped with this simple task without any problems. “I had a great summer with my friends instead of fiddling over some stupid piece of paper,” she told her mother. They had different priorities and there is nothing wrong with that.
“Children at this age are engaged in learning about a social world that is much more complex than parents imagine,” says Dawson . "From a human development perspective, this is probably just as important as a math problem ."


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